First of all, thank you for your comments about my marriage woes. My DH left yesterday and flew out of state until Friday night for training for his job and it's actually a welcome relief to just have some space. He left on a good note and we had another heart to heart talk. But as you could probably tell by my last post, I'm pretty much at my end of having talks because I know it's only a matter of time before it's bad again.
Before I got married, I always assumed a spouse would do something such as becoming physically abusive or cheat and that'd be the signal the marriage was over because growing up that's all I could remember that caused people we knew to get divorced. So when I started dating my husband and we had difficulties that didn't fall into those categories I figured you just keep working on it and stay together. After nearly 10 years together, neither of those two events have occurred so then it's like when do you call it quits?
I'm considering doing the Love Dare but on the other hand I want to work selfishly to make myself as whole as possible by getting healthy physically and mentally. Not that you can't do the Love Dare while doing those things but sometimes I tend to take on too much at one time. I just need to consider it for a little while longer before making a decision. That's where I'm at today, again, thanks for hearing me out on the last post:)
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